Couples who are 'emotionally secure' regularly talk about 8 things, says Harvard-trained psychologist
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Couples who are 'emotionally secure' regularly talk about 8 things, says Harvard-trained psychologist
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CNBCDr. Cortney Warren, Contributor
Developing secure attachment often means outgrowing relationships built on insecure dynamics. When you stop overextending, people accustomed to your self-abandonment may resist the change. This is uncomfortable but necessary. Research on relationship patterns shows that as one person becomes more secure, relationships either evolve to accommodate the new dynamic or naturally end. The relationships worth keeping will adapt. The ones that can't were likely reinforcing unhealthy patterns anyway. ⁣
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Developing secure attachment often means outgrowing relationships built on insecure dynamics. When you stop overextending, people accustomed to your self-abandonment may resist the change. This is uncomfortable but necessary. Research on relationship patterns shows that as one person becomes more secure, relationships either evolve to accommodate the new dynamic or naturally end. The relationships worth keeping will adapt. The ones that can't were likely reinforcing unhealthy patterns anyway. ⁣
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For the vast majority of couples, achieving secure attachment is as easy as learning healthier, attachment friendly communication skills. You can find these skills all over my account (start with the"negative cycle" highlight on Instagram) and of course my book Secure Love is meant to help all couples escape the negative communication cycles that fuel insecure attachment and achieve/strengthen a securely attached bond by walking them through the self-help version of the work I do with couples in
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Working towards a more secure attachment style is the key to building a long-lasting, healthy relationship. We created "Secure Love in 4 Steps" to help couples identify insecure patterns and take actionable steps toward a secure connection. Comment SECURE to get the link to our free guide! | LoveSecurely
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Emotionally/safe environments fostertemotional growth. Emotional growth fosters relationship growth. Like everything else it takes consistency (not perfection) and time. You can start with the next interaction. Lots of skills and ideas on my account to help you know what to do. ❤️ | The Secure Relationship
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