I remember telling myself time and time again during my serial cheating days that I would never cheat again. And in that moment, I was absolutely serious and dedicated. But here’s the truth most unfaithful spouses never realize: That feeling is motivation — and when you’re trying to save your relationship, your motivation is at its highest… but it eventually wears off during moments of desperation. If you haven’t done the internal work to understand yourself… and the external work to change the